Monday, February 18, 2008

Crib ... crib

Here comes the periodic post on what lousy friends most guys make !

Rule #3 from the movie "Rules : Pyaar ka superhit formula" really really does have a valid principle ... The rule being "Aadmi ko hamesha ek raaz bani raho" (Always be mysterious to men) ... It doesnt matter if the man/guy in question is just a friend and you dont wish to let it go beyond simple friendship.

A huge blow to the fragile female ego when a guy who used to pay a lot of minute attention suddenly turns indifferent and inattentive ...

Cooling of friendship, or maybe other friends or females who have higher priorities .... whatever it be , definitely hurts the female soul ....

Anyways, lesson learnt .... always maintain sufficient distance so as to retain the curiosity !

But still, my pride is hurting like hell .. Damn damn damn !

12 comments:

neermathalam said...

:)..ha ha...

That is interesting....indeed..
But it is worth asking yourself a question..what indeed did you want from him ??....

Take it from me...Guys are very bad in coping up with a mystery...
thier natural instict is either to solve it or if they fails they move out of it...

As a guy I vehementl protest against your first sentence... :P

Keshi said...

I thought guys like mysterious women :)

Keshi.

Jeseem said...

very sorry to hear that.

hey you need a little break from him and a lot of attention from your other friends. So call on to your big big group of friends.

Wishing you a better day tomorrow

-Poison- said...

lol! once bitten, twice shy!

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

2 Neer :
why is it interesting ????
it all comes down to what women want !!!!!
jokes apart , i am real hurt ...

2 Keshi :
apparantely , they dont !

2 Jeseem :
ur old mail is a solace !!

2 Poison :
yeahhh !

neermathalam said...

my sympathies...
this phase of life would fly off soon...
and smile will be back on ur lips..
cheer up...

Swati said...

deepa..i totally agree with u..guys r lyk this.they give u the royal ignore the moment they find sumone else nd 4get evrythin.soo mean..

~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

2 Neer :
thank u !

2 Swati :
weird species ... right ?

The Geesa said...

sorry for that ...
but come on..
there are rotten apples. that doesn't mean all the apples are rotten. how can you generalize things...

zonko said...

aw. so sad.

but guys like the minute attention too, and give-and-take relationships work well with them too.. so maybe there's more to this than meets the eye at first glance.

if it helps you feel better, I can promise to give you some macro level attention every now and then :P

Neetha said...

Feeling sorry for u!...
But heres a tip...tried and tested!
If he ignores u..just pretend like it doesnt bother u a bit...and IGNORE bak...
Believe me the ignoring phase is for more attention! He wil be bak! ;)

And I like ur blog here!:) Got da link from Neermathalam...

Take care...and happy blogging! :)

Neetha.

sheela1221 said...

Hi,

Very few realize the problems of female's and they try correcting . Some over do it purposefully.. This is not the problem with only females this is the problem in both the sex. Males run after females till then get attention after that they will stretch...

Hmmmm anyways human tendency attention seeking....!