There are a few people like magnets. You can never get to their inner most thoughts unless they will it. They attract people to them, like moths attracted to fire ....
And they keep a distance from the moths ... If the moths try to venture too close , they ward the moths away with the sharpness of their inner light.
The magnets don't go around hunting for substances , unlike the objects that strive to be the centre of attraction. The magnets are cold , absorbed in themselves, and take refuge in more cold magnets. They know the full extent of their attraction, but tend to tone it down.
But when a situation arises where they want to impress with their magnetism, they sizzle and shimmer.
The connection between the heading of the post and the body ? Magnets would understand it ;)))))